Funny Jenkins works at home but not at work okee dokee. Plantonic?? It's okay really it is. NO people have the right to NOT answer their phone. Caller ID makes this even easier when you don't want to talk to that long winded friend right at that moment or talk to the ex who keeps calling with his undies in a twist and he's getting pissed because you don't want to talk to him. Face it she is no angel and her actions speak loudly that she needs some help or something similar to guidance, but she has the right to not pick up the phone(no matter how long you two have been going at it off and on) when she KNOWS it is you calling. This should tell you LOTS. The lots it should tell you and that which you seem to have already learned is to stop calling her. You seem really nice, and REALLY sensitive. Moving on will be good for you, and seriously if you have been on and off again for 9 freaking years and it hasn't ended in marriage it should end permanently. Think of all the time wasted, time is a precious commodity my friend, and I am sure we have all been guilty of wasting our fair share of it. But if your gonna waste it, waste it chasing someone else.