How could you think of dumping a loving husband, a wonderful kid, a safe and secure marriage for a bum who treated you like a two-bit ho? Well, how could you? Women who want to be treated like crap typically ARE treated like crap. You dumped the guy for a very good reason...and now want more of that? The grass isn't greener over there, trust me. This ex of yours has more crabgrass than an unattended vacant lot in midtown. Concentrate on the great things you have, the things other women would cherish. "Lukewarm" love with the guy you married? Come on, where did that come from. Your husband and little one depend on you to be an adult and quit with the schoolgirl flirting with the dumb greaser who flunked algebra but could woo you with his cool. Ever heard the phrase "You can never go back"? Well, you can't. Quit looking into the rear view mirror and start looking down the road in front of you for a change...