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happy_girl Views: 615
Published: 18 years ago
 
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Re: Need our Advise


Hi! I thought I would offer some suggestions.

If your friend's girlfriend is acting this way, and it isn't working for him, he needs to tell her in a loving (but firm)way what he doesn't like about how things are going, giving her a chance to respond. This is the reason for dating...to find out things about the other person.

If he has been completely honest and clear with her that her behaviors aren't what he can deal with, and she understands his issue but is ignoring his complaints by saying "everything is good"...it is hard then to come to any compromise. That kind of scenario would only get worse and maybe branch out into other parts of the relationship. Without real communication and compromise, there can be no change in behavior.

From my experience, the barometer of a relationship lies not in the perfection of the relationship or those involved, but in the willingness of both to do whatever it takes to make it work. Good relationships are extremely difficult things, and it takes 2 people working at 100%...or it just won't work, at least not for long. If she really wants it to work, she will put in the effort, if not, then he has his answer.

Hope this helps your friend.
 

 
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