If you find a girl that you would like to take out on a "date," do something fun! It's not about how much money you spend, how many hours the date lasts, what you are wearing, or anything of the sorts- it's about finding something creative to do! The love of my life, to whom I have been with for over a year now, won me over on our first date when he planned for us to go frisbee golfing. I had never played, and I do admit I thought it was strange at first, but we had a blast! I do think that these types of activities are much more conducive to getting to know someone than going on the typical dinner and movie date. If you choose to go the dinner and movie route, there is a standard (especially for girls) to act a certain way. You may get the wrong impression of the girl's personality, and set yourself up for disappointment should you continue to date her. If you do something fun and spontaneous, her true personality and sense of humor will shine through- whether she is aware of it or not. Good luck, and there are good girls out there!