and 11243 ~ you need to do whats right for yourself. although if you are just being selfish, you need to consider her feelings more than yours.
depending on the brand name and the cut/ style, i can wear between a 9 and a 13. I'm tall for a girl and have curves. now i have extra baby weight right now, but i still think i am attractive. i would die if my husband told me he was leaving me because i was fat. you should love her for her INSIDE and if you dont then you shouldnt be together. outward appearances change. its good to be attracted to the person but you shouldnt be with someone becuase they are good looking.
you shouldnt stay with someone becuase you could have alot of money with this business either.
if you dont love her, then just go your separate ways. although i think you should open your eyes, be all you can be and try to make it work with a nice girl. big girls should have a love life too.