I met a woman who got Herpes from a past boyfriend a long time ago. I have no diseases afaik. Everything else leads me to think she might be a great match for me. We just met a short time ago, and have been brutally honest with each other so far - which I find very positive and refreshing. Not to sound shallow, but I need to know what I am getting into before I pursue a relationship. How does Herpes fit into a relationship? What kind of physical contact would be off limits? Will this affect her ability to have healthy kids? This is very frustrating.