Re: Boyfriend with a temper..can he change?

"He shuts me out and is becomes mean to other people...
he doesn't treat other's nice...
i almost hate him...
He recently moved to a different state...
we fought almost everyday and i cried everyday too...
the last 3 days i was there we never kissed..held hands..but no kissing...
I'm worried about his mean side..."

Your relationship is past over and is continuing on a downward spiral. Let go. Move on. The worst thing you can do is waste even more time holding on to past memories. Someone who is nice to you but mean to the waiter, is not a nice person.

The biggest red flag though was this:

"I want to change him."

If you attempt this, be prepared for years and years of wasted time and heartache. Most of all, years and years away from the person you should be with. Your match is out there - but you have to let go of this guy first. Trust me - I am a guy! It is over!

Just my opinion.

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