anyone please help, i don't know what to do. Here is my situation: there is this girl, and i am in love with her, but she has a boyfriend, and she only wants to be friends with me. that would be cool, except, when i am around her it hurts really bad, knowing that it can't be more than just friendship (at least for now). i don't want to break her up with her boyfriend if her makes her happy or they love each other, but i can't tell if these are true or not. i told her that i had a crush on her to test the waters, and she said that i hadn't know her long enough, which i probably haven't and i can't explain why i love her but i do, but when we got to know each other better it would be "cool". if anyone has some sound advice i would much appreciate it, thanks for your time.