Bro! she's totally using you! one or two things she's hurting you as revenge for not spending enough time with her on a real intimate level one on one, no matter the circumstances! and this tactic is really juvinile, she must have an idiot friend giving her this type of advice which for your sake i hope is a girlfriend and not some dude trying to move in on your squirl or maybe she's toying with you everyone loves attention and right now she's the star remember women are far more dangerous than men just ask the most powerfull men in history. In either case the dark force is strong bro! determine if the juice is worth the squeeze! meaning is she worth fighting for? GOOD LUCK MY APPRENTANCE MAY THE FORCE BE WITH YOU.