he only said "a little more desperate" that doesn't mean too much...besides EVERYONE gets "a little more desperate" the longer they are relationshipless :/.
Trust me, the "sweet-ones" will always be little ass-kissers and it will annoy you unless you are a spoiled-brat...you need to find a guy who keeps a balance between being an %¤#&!§-and being a "sweet-one"...thats like the quest for the holy grail because quite frankly there aren't too many of us out there (and no don't get all offended because I include myself in that category...I'm not a pompous jackass or anything like that but I do pride myself on knowing how to treat a lady). This search for "Mr. Right" can take years which is why getting "a little more desperate" is going to happen. 21 is still VERY young in the love game so you have plenty of time to find that guy who sweeps you off your feet. Good luck with the love hunt.
ps. Love this quote "Just because someone likes me, doesn't mean I have to like them back. It takes a little more than that."
This absolutely proves everything I have been telling my buds about girls...mind if I steal this quote from you?