Ditch the jackass and kick him in the goody bag for me! A jerk that will act like that and then put on like its your fault needs to be shot. He is a manipulative, jerk and should be treated like that. Don't worry about his feelings. Crush him like the insignifigant speck of dust that he is. Make HIM do the crying for once.
By the way this is coming from a guy if that makes any difference :).