on target....

and I think the guy posting at the top of the forum could benefit from all this....how do you suggest he look here and read? Seems applicable (to us all)

This is just my personal opinion, but I think that you can be happier in a relationship than you can be alone, and you can be more MISERABLE in a relationship than you can be alone. That's just my humble opinion. So choose wisely; be wise.

We are all trying to get to the same place; just taking different paths. Doesn't matter the path....just we all deserve a pat on the back for TRYING, not giving up, and giving each other a hand along the way. I certainly appreciate all the "hands" and advice, and then I am happy to share--often I haven't "learned" what I've been 'taught' until I share it--often till I've shared it three times. I think all of us may be like that.....

take care all. Let's keep climbing, one step at a time. Whether they are 'baby steps' or whether the game of "mother may I" goes well, and we get to take some GIANT STEPS (that's what I wish for us all, at least now and then) the good news is....we are all winners, in the end. We just all have to help each other get there--it's not a competition, its a.....I don't know. What is the right word?

love all,
peace and joy,
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