Re: Jealous gf

This smacks of a fear/need based relationship.

What to do?

Most adult relationships mirror at some level the relationship we had with either mom or dad

So this depends on how much introspection you want to do. My initial thoughts are that probably as a child you were denied (at some level) the right attention and this is reflected in jealousy. From what you say you give the impression of feeling threatened. (Maybe your parents gave more attention to the other siblings).

To resolve this issue which I guess is being repeated with your boyfriend and the other women, is firstly to recognize parallels in relationships, rethink your feelings when you were younger, recognize the (lack of) attention you were given at key moments, when you were feeling most vulnerable who was there for you? What did they do? If you think of times gone by when you felt this jealousy, be honest with yourself.

To fix the problems is the next step I ll go through a couple of exercises if this makes sense

Best wishes

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