The best thing about meeting peiople and relationships is that they tell you about you in other words this is a good opportunity to examine oneself.
Anger - is associated with fear where this come from?
When was the last time you felt angry?
Which other relationships did you feel this?
Do you enjoy feeling this way?
Most relationships are `control` based. If you truly love her then whatever she does is understanable, if you don t then you may be just part of the victim/pursecutor/rescuer triangle the drama generated is addictive and confused with love.