Baby, can we meet?....just kidding. I'm way too old for you anyway, except, have you seen The Graduate?....no, never mind, just kidding again....
Ask them for a date. Tell them you are in a rebound period, and you need for the meetings to be very very casual. Make the date for breakfast or lunch, so there's none of that your place or mine to worry about. Who knows, if you fall in love at breakfast, you have the whole day to kick around. Maybe go to the zoo? You can really get to know a person when you spend a whole day with them, as opposed to a night date over dinner, when everyone has their interview face on. Walking and talking brings out so very much conversation. That's how I fell in love with my husband. Our beginning relationship was walking for miles and miles through San Francisco. Walking, talking, eating and sex consumed us for almost 6 months. I was in great shape AND in love.