Re: Well....
Knowing yourself is the the key and ultimate feat
For me it is the primary requirement.
If you are honest and aware with yourself, then you will attract honest and aware people around you.
We are often fooled into a loving situation by the glamour and glitz distraction, fear of being alone and need, when really the underlying attraction is power based. What I m saying is that most retionships are control based, a habit which has been learnt as a child and badged up as love.
When you are honest and aware relationships spark at an exhilarating level.
As we all know life can be a journey of disovery if you want it to be and the adverse aspects which can be as minor or major as you want them to be, gives the opportunity (if you so wish) to find clues as to what you both percieve is going on in your lives. Current experience is not a requirement simply knowing how you or your partner have coped in the past with adversity is equally revealing.
Good talking