Re: Am I in denial or is it just wrong?

You are both so right.

I just don't know what to do.

I think...or rather hope that we can work through things. The biggest thing we upset eachother over is money. He just thinks he can buy anything. It's like...him wanting to pay the cable/internet bill when we owe on the electricity...but what good is internet with no electricity, right? When I express my feelings about that stuff, he gets distressed with me.

I just don't know how to talk about all these things without having an unsuccessful discussion. Whenever I tell him that I held back saying things because I didn't know how to bring them up to him, he said I just need to come out with it and say it but...there's too much to be said and too much I need to ask him. I think he wants me to be more laid back but at the same time he could just want me to let him do whatever he wants because we're not married...but I can't do that when it's our money and our home and our life. Tweet