Published: 17 years ago
Should I let go?
I don't know if I should let go or what I should do.
I rekindled a flame with an old boyfriend. When we were together before, I was in a really difficult time in my life, and things didn't work out. It was a mutual breakup. I really thought that we might be able to make it work this time. Yeah, we live in two different states, but I would be willing to move for love. I just love him so much!
So, in a nutshell, he broke it off with me by being really honest. I know he was being honest, and that is one of the things I love about him.
There are a couple main reasons why he broke it off with me.
1. I treated him poorly when we were in a relationship before.
2. I broke his trust with me before.
3. Our physical attraction to each other blinds us into beliving that we are really meant to be together.
These are things that he can't get over. He feels that we just can't ever be together long term. We also can't be around each other, because then the physical messes with the emotional, and we are back where we were before the breakup.
I just don't know what to do. He wants to be my friend. I just don't know if I can or want to be just friends. What I really want to do is to go, show up at his doorstep in four months and see what happens.
What do I do?