Re: Destruction part 1

It is difficult to tell adults how to behave. I took my youngest son go-karting at the weekend, the instructor told me that no many how many times he tells the adults to slow down they don t and they (a fair %) end up hurting themselves and each other. The boys at the weekend however didn t hurt themselves or each other (most probably because their role models don t hurt themselves).

There are some lessons in life that need to be learnt the hard way for all parties involved, sometimes one can see short cuts for others to take but they haven t learnt any lessons unless they feel necessary pain. Relationships provide the opportunity for self examination and exploration. For most of life the vast majority of people are idle, they take the short cuts, sticking to what they know. Emotionally this means living in a state of denial, living with what we have found comfortable to live with, supported by family precedents and/or addictions.
The importance of pain, avoided by most for most of the time, is vital in providing the catalyst for possible change. Pain can awaken the senses and provide the necessary trigger to spark a process of self awareness. Leading to an enlightening process resulting in self love. This self eximination and love of oneself manifests itself in a reavaluation of values, honesty and awarness. So the more pain people are in the more likely they will change their ways for the better. When people have learnt the lessons involved they have the opportunity to move on, until that phase is reached bring on the adults for part 2..

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