You answered your own question . . . "Why don't I like her anymore?" Because you don't like her anymore! You don't have to stay in a relationship, and lots of relationships go nowhere - they aren't all going to end in true love - in fact, very very few of them will. It's okay that you don't like her anymore, so move on and let her move on. Don't feel guilty about not liking her anymore and thinking you should just because she's a great person. I'm sure she is a wonderful person, but you're bored with the relationship and that's okay. You gave as much love as you could, and you may "love" this lady as another human being, but obviously you are not "in love" because if you were you would know it for sure. Don't be so hard on yourself, and I doubt if you need extensive counseling - it's okay for you to break off a relationship that you feel has run its course, and not feel guilty about it!