I don't know where women got this idea (from the men!) about shoving half a foot long members up the shoot but it's not a healthy practice and needs to halt right here and now. Trust me on this one, there's no pleasureable nerve endings in the anal walls, only for the guys because it's a tight hole. Anal linings don't produce natural lubricant for anal sex, and thus, are damaged each and every time it's tried. Quit harming your body so he can get off in another hole! And I'm a guy!!!! Stay with the vagina, it was designed for this, and leave the poop shoot for releasing fecal matter. Thank you and good day...