i have an appointment set up for the second, we wont have insurance unti the first anyway. ive tried everything i have here at home for the pain, includint what the dr gave me to take for cramps after our baby was born, nothing helps. it sometimes hurts so bad that it reminds me of having a miscarriage. but im not pregnant, so i know thats not happening, i dont understand why im hurting so bad. i also think, possibly, that its trying to come out. i could be wrong, but it is possible.