Re: need advice badly
Trust me on this one (let me emphasize) GET OUT, GET AWAY, STAY AWAY, DON'T BEG, TRY TO PLEAD, TRY TO GET HIM TO LISTEN, SEE THE LIGHT, GET HELP - JUST GO. p 0 r n IS AN ADDICTION, DRUGS ARE ABSOLUTELY A FACTOR HERE, AND IF YOU QUIT LIVING IN DENIAL YOU KNOW THAT HE IS USING - THERE IS NO WINNING FROM METH, AND OBSESSION WITH p 0 r n IS A SPIRITUAL SICKNESS, YOU ARE INVOLVED WITH A SICK AND DIRTY MAN, AND EVENTUALLY HE WILL BRING YOU HOME SOMETHING THAT WATER CANNOT WASH OFF.
My sister, who has a masters degree, by the way, got with a guy who started using meth. Same thing - obsessed with p 0 r n, up all night, no sex - but eventually he brought her the gift that keeps on giving - herpes. In addition to spending all their money and emotionally wrecking her - oh by the way, she also was diagnosed with Breast Cancer
during this time.
THERE IS NO HOPE FOR YOUR SANITY - GET OUT NOW!!!!! YOU ARE NOT STRONGER THAN METH, AND NEITHER IS LOVE, AND HE WILL HAVE TO FIND HIS OWN PATH - THE ODDS OF COMPLETE RECOVERY FROM METH USE IS VERY LOW - AND YOU CANNOT AFFORD THE HUGE CHUNK OF TIME IT WILL TAKE TO TRY TO GET HIM SOBER.
I think you know that he is drugging, and that is okay, but you need to accept and get out before you slide down his slippery slope. How does it feel to listen to him watch p 0 r n all night long? Like love? I didn't think so.