Tell her to have the Mirena removed. My marriage has suffered since I got the Mirena and I know it has. I feel much the same way she does. I have no interest in a sexual relationship with my husband. I am struggling because I feel this way. I love my husband and sometimes want to just give up but I will be darned if it will get the best of me. I have suffered other effects from this b/c. I am looking into having mine removed. I would suggest the same for her. No doctors will tell you these side effects are pertaining to the Mirena.