I can count on one had how many times I had sex in the nine months I had the Mirena. I didn't even want my husband to come anywhere near me - we actually ended up in two different beds. I have been Mirena-free for 11 days and I am just starting to get back into "the mood". I just hope it's not too late - I would love to share a bed again. I feel so much better emotionally and physically - we just need to work on the sexually now.