I agree with the other gal. Don't take it out yourself. You could tear something. I had mine out yesterday and was feeling the same way you are. I tried to pull it out one night myself because I could't take it anymore. Just hang in there and wait for your doctor appt. When they take it out it is not nearly as painful as when they put it in. They ask you to cough and pull it out with some kind of clamp-like thing. I looked at it laying there on the table and felt so relieved. Just hang in there!!!
P.S.--My boyfriend isn't too hapy, either. They don't understand!