I am so sorry to hear this. My prayers are there, for this child. May God bless this child's future!
You are so right.
I wish more people (women) would pay attention. He does NOT love you when it is about CONTROL. Also, one must learn, you canNOT love and fear another. When fear becomes the dominating factor, love has been replaced, as much as anyone wants to say otherwise.
When he (the man who Controlled me) showed his true colors I was in 'too deep' (btw, I did know what he was capable of, I was warned YET, I was soooooo sure, he would NOT do that to me... I (or you, whoever that is) could NOT change his core. He chose not to change, either...I am not saying that a man like that canNOT change. I am saying he canNOT change unless he CHOOSES to...and then gets help to do so!).