I know you have gone through the mill lately and i am sorry about your miscarriage, but i am pleased that your posting reads so energised. I experienced many of the symptoms you mentioned and the hand thing is a strange one i agree. I have Raynauds and therefore poor circulation in my hands, so i naturally thought it was getting much worse. After the removal of the IUD my hands have slowly improved. I believe the removal of the IUD was the best thing i have ever done. I have endo and was worried that i was making a mistake but the mistake was deciding to give the IUD a go in the first place. There is light at the end of the tunnel. Good luck with your removal (it's nothing like having it inserted) and keep your good spirits up.