I wonder, I have gotten so many diffrent points of veiw on my health, I think the best advice is to ask your doctor. I called merina hotline and they are having a nurse call me back. My pain is like your pain in the pelvis, and I have been tired also, call the iud people and talk to them, they did not really help me, but said they will call back, by that time my iud will be out. have your husband get fixed, its much simpler and easy to reverse now!