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Date:   4/20/2006 8:35:15 PM ( 17 years ago ago)
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Let me give you one example. Im a school teacher and have to handle 15 kids from tree different levels in Preschool. Finishing this class I have to teach in secondary but Iīm late sometimes for that reason. I hink it is abuse to make a teacher work with 15 kids of three different levels.
The school principal once knocked at my door to let me know I was late.
I got mad and thought of going to tell him "Donīt you ever again dare to knock at my classrooom door because you donīt know what I am doing." As I thought that was very agressive I swallowed my anger and said nothing.
I would have liked to be assertive and tell him " Please donīt be like that donīt knock me at my door because Iīm doing my best and Iīm hadling a very complex situation" That is What I would have liked to do but as I was so mad I couldnīt.

Actually im seeing a mental health Dr.
But what I would like is to be more effective in my relationships.

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