Re: Love my man but the sex sux!

I agree and I disagree. If making love isn't the most natural thing in the world for you two, perhaps you're not the right fit. Perhaps.

Other than that, relax! I'm guessing you feel discouraged because you're not getting any feedback. Ask him what he wants, make it a game. Ask him about his fantasies. Be playful! Honestly, just spend a day naked in bed together. If you're perfectly comfortable hanging out naked then I guarantee the sex will be more passionate. And when you're having sex, try breathing at his pace. You'd be surprised how much it makes you feel like one person.

Oh, and the first thing you should do is compliments. He might be feeling the same way, so while you're fooling around, say a few things you think he does really well. When you both feel confident, you feel sexy, and then you'll get the passion back. Men are easy..just make them feel like a sex god and they'll be begging to please you.