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What can i do...?
a friend of mine was put in a situation where a woman used her control over something he needed, in order to force him to have sex with her... he was stranded, and had nowhere else to turn, and felt obligated to do what she wanted...
legally, that's not considered "rape" although, it still brings about the after-effects of rape... the trauma, the guilt, fear, shame, pain, self-hate and disgust, depression, etc etc...
i'm not sure what to do, or where i can get some help for him... he's really depressed, and ashamed of himself for going through with it, even though he didn't want to... he felt like he had no other option, and would've been stranded, and stuck if he chose not to...
i just wanna know what i can do to help him, what resources are there for victim advocacy for men? what can he do to help himself? he doesn't deserve to hate himself for the situation he's been put in, so, any help, any advice, any resources, hotlines, websites... anything to help him, and show him that yes, someone DOES care...
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