Thanks for the advice. I have asked for DNA test which obviously brought forth rage and contempt from her. How could you even think that I would cheat on you ? She has agreed so it is going ahead. We did use protection and unfortunately for me it didn't work.
I'm planning to be fully involved in my child's life so will most likely live apart. My biggest concern is the psychological warfare that she will throw my way. Will I be able to withstand it ? She loves playing games so will do everything to prevent me from seeing my child as she is that kind of person. Obviously I will use the right channels if that would come true.