Such a beautifully written article even though in reality many men will not follow this suggestions :) I'm very lucky to have a very loving husband who always put his family and I first. But even with that due to my own parents who didn't get along during most part of their marriage, so I didn't have a good example to follow when it comes to my own marriage. Thus it took a lot of trial and error for me to learn to make my marriage works, and I'm still learning, good thing I've a husband who is very willing to make the marriage works. Recently I came across a free ebook teaching people how to communicate better in a relationship and bring harmony and life back into a marriage. I find the info in there really helpful, you can find the ebook here--http://www.savethemarriagetips.com