I looked up Bot in the on-line dictionary, but I am not clear what you mean by Bot. If you would define that word, I will try to be rsponsive to your question. You seem like you are trying to be thoughtful in your posts.
I did not mention figuring out some ways to compliment the young lady he is intending to ask out. It takes some thinking so as not to sound too fake. Any good compliments for a young lady? "Your way of thinking about things is really refreshing." "I really like the questions you ask the teachers." "I like the way you are always quiet in class, but you look like you are thinking more deeply than anyone else."
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Husband of 28 years, raised 2 challenging kids, still struggling